Identity and the search for a sense of self are fundamental aspects of the human desire to understand our purpose here on earth. Addressing the question, “Who am I?” can be both profound and confusing because it is multifaceted.

In my last episode, I discussed how my identity was connected to my financial stability. However, that belief ultimately failed me.

As a single mum, the question of “Who am I?” has consistently troubled me. I’ve asked myself, am I just a mother? Am I just a woman who had a troubled marriage? A daughter who didn’t live up to marital expectations and seemed to have brought shame to her family? A friend viewed with skepticism or struggling to connect with others? Who am I?

These questions have plagued me, giving me sleepless nights and moments of solitude. As I look at my children, my beautiful symbols of resilience and hope, I wonder if they alone define me. Am I only defined by the roles I play and the expectations others have of me, or is there more to me than meets the eye?

Hmm…

Let’s pick this up next week as I navigate through realization and discovery. 

Thank you for accompanying me on this journey.